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I think it's hard to convey the extent to which 'school culture' leaks into *everything*. I was homeschooled, and so when I got into the world 'school culture' was glaringly obvious. Thread of examples:
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2. Isolation of kids and adults. The important people in a kid's life are *other kids* almost exclusively. Kids are isolated in a radically different environment, and then undergo a transition into 'adult world.' This is weird and feels super artificial.
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3. Relationship to learning. School-culture sees learning as a job - you go in, turn in the paperwork and if you do well enough you get a promotion (grades, good college). I can't tell you the number of times ppl asked me "what course is that for" when I was reading BOOK FOR FUN
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4. School imagery *everywhere*. There's aisles in grocery stores dedicated to it, there's an ad season for it. Yellow busses, apples and teachers and desks and hand raising. In my world, this is a foreign language, but it's saturated in tiny ways everywhere we look.
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5. Bullying. Even if it's not outright, there's still toxic relationship norms rampant in school culture that are considered default, normal, not-weird. People will laugh about the one time everyone outed and made fun of them to their crush like this is just how the world works.
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It's hard to really sum up the extent to which this happens. It's in tiny references - "playing hooky", "drop out", "teacher's pet", "cram", "saved by the bell", "who do you sit with at lunch", "recess", etc. - that exist *everywhere*. We're swimming in it.
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This is a thing even when it makes very little sense for the teen to go to school like, fighting aliens or being a superhero or whatever which is super important but they're still drudging along doing busy work at school