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for yall saying im reinventing marriage, not quite. Marriage would be more "u pay me a lot to birth and raise your child with also a very strict exclusivity clause that prevents anybody else from also paying me for a child"

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Aella

@Aella_Girl

Jan 26, 2021

Ok what if instead of men paying me a little bit for sex, they instead pay me a lot to actually birth and raise their child

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11:16 PM · Jan 26, 2021

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So *that’s* why California banned non-compete clauses!

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aren't kids like implicit exclusivity? you don't get much time and energy for other stuff anyway

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I think that would be the weirdest and coldest parental relationship. It’s like agreeing to be divorced from day one, and there’s a whole host of problems made from divorce.

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If that's what marriage means to you then your conception of marriage is completely and totally broken.

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Guess I'm old school next to you...... I need a bit of that strange concept,...LOVE, in my relationships. $$ will buy sex from any 'tute, but you don't get neat the same feels from a hug from someone that you love & loves you in kind.

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This wouldn't include raising the child, but you could be a surrogate. I overheard a surrogate talking with the check-in person at one of my prenatal appointments recently.

MugaSofer@Icosohedron.website

@MugaSofer

Jan 27, 2021

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@Aella_Girl

So, surrogate + nanny? Probably legal, but what would be the target demographic?

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Oh Sweetie, you don't have the domestic skills or nurturing mindset to be a wife. What exactly do you feel that you bring to a marriage? You can't say "sex". Men can get sex for "free", from any woman on the market. Do you even know what men are looking for in a wife?