Desensitization to sex, I would predict, happens more with people having one sexual partner for a very long time
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What of the phenomenon of people who gradually move to more and more extreme kinks when their old ones no longer do it for them? Those people do exist. Nothing is good for everyone, there should be consideration given to desensitization of anything as important as sex imo
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People get desensitized to anything they're exposed to for long enough. How do people handle this in general? Often rotation works - rotating drugs you take for example. I personally find my kinks tend to rotate through naturally.
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As with everything, YMMV. What's good for the goose is not good for the gander. Sex is one of the few activities with truly inelastic demand.
this is an interesting challenge around these discussions
Aella is poly and is concerned with the (realistic!) negative outcomes of monogamy
whereas I’m monogamous and optimistic about it
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Could you explain the reasoning/data which led to this hypothesis?