Ok clearly you want a response from me so: “fuck whoever whenever however” doesn’t work any better than the Victorian mores that created a generation of hypersexuality-as-rebellionhttps://twitter.com/CathyReisenwitz/status/1352902421345755136 …
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Basically I'm saying your description of what happens after a bunch of rando sex reminds me of my parents telling you what'll happen if you try drugs. It's technically true in some situations but based more out of vague fear and misses a ton of upside
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This is probably totally wrong, but increased personal freedoms destroy some people but turn other people into einsteins, and then the latter make things better for an entire civilization.
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The biggest effect is probably that it severely limits your pool of potential future long term partners. I'm sure you already realize this.
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I feel confused when people bring this up. It's like... As an analogy, if someone is super smart and also wants to date someone super smart, that is also limiting their pool of potential partners, but like... So what? There's still some smart ppl out there looking for you too
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is this connected to you being poly?
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what I'm trying to get at - if someone is not poly, or plans on being monogamous, sleeping with 200 people might have different consequences
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You’re also a lot more intentional and situated in a subculture, almost. Same with Cathy. I think you both have unique dispositions & attract the same. But what about people who aren’t? Do you think it scales? I’ve always seen you both as “living your truth” so to speak but-
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-you have the disposition for it. It IS your truth.
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I’m pretty sure we are served by being able to fuck whoever we want when we want how we want with no social or legal repercussions. In fact I’m pretty sure social and legal repercussions for sex are definitely measurably more harmful than the sex itself.