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This corner of the internet is absolutely fascinating - a tutorial for women who are trying to get raped. It refers to rapists as 'targets', gives tips on how to increase your chances of being raped, and how to identify the men most likely to rape you reddit.com/r/rapekink/wik

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Misha Gurevich, Photographer, VC, Wives 0/1

@drethelin

Jan 23, 2021

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I feel like these are probably all written by male fetishists

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I don't know. On one hand, it's reddit; on the other hand, the fantasy of being raped is I think the most common sexual fantasy for women?

3:30 AM · Jan 23, 2021

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It is very common but I've been led to believe such things happen under pre-set conditions agreed upon between the couple rather than women 'targeting' men they think are likely to do it. To me it does sound like a man writing it but using the fantasy to justify it

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I mean likely it's a mix of both. People are extremely varied and do insane things for their sex drive, the question is more what percentage is real?

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I don’t know how highly regarded My Secret Garden by Nancy Friday is nowadays but it was definitely eye opening to understand female psychology and the pretty wide breadth of sexual fantasy

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Shhhh, you are not allowed to say that

The Grey Girl (is on semi-hiatus)

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Key word here is ‘fantasy’

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I highly doubt that. I doubt a woman wants a random stranger to assault her. Are you conflating a woman preferring a manly take-charge boyfriend or husband with some random goon in a van?