1. Where to look
Tryst.link is my top recommend. Great searching, treats escorts well, high volume
Slixa and Eros are also good, but would recommend Eros as a last resort, only if you have low amounts of escorts in your area and can't find any on other sites.
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For escorts, price is def correlated with quality. The median rate of escorts is usually around $3-500/hr, but usually is higher in bigger/wealthier US cities. The higher the price, the lower volume (amount of clients she sees per week) she's likely to be, very roughly speaking.
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2. Read her website. She might have common questions answered. Sometimes photos are more flattering than she'll look irl - my clients often cited 30-50% of girls they met, looked like their photos. She typically will have an email or a scheduling form.
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3. Most established girls want references from other girls you've seen. If you don't have this yet, you'll probably have to give her proof of your income and identity so she can run it through blacklists to check. If she doesn't do this, this is a red flag for your safety too.
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If you're afraid of giving out real ID, check to see if she has a long and established presence online. PrivateDelights has reviews, but keep in mind some well established escorts aren't listed and don't like reviews. If she seems like a thorough professional, you're probs safe.
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Remember - it's not in her interest to leak your ID. She has a reputation to maintain, wants your business back, and also doesn't want to give you any motivation to leak details from your meeting with her, either.
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4. After screening, it's time to meet. Incalls are when you go to her; outcalls are when she comes to you. Sometimes she'll have an extra fee for one of these. Hotels, airbnbs, and apartments are all normal.
Prep is included in your time; some expect you to shower upon arrival.
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She'll probably tell you her preferences, but most prefer you to leave cash somewhere in the room and then excuse yourself. If you meet in public first, she might want it given discreetly inside a gift. She also might want a deposit with gift cards beforehand.
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It's also totally okay and normal to take her on a date beforehand, like out to dinner. Generally escorts *love* this, but it's also not necessary. Gifts are nice but typically not expected; same with tips - unless she says otherwise, of course.
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Fun one is dinner or other meal *after*. Off the clock, can tell she *really* likes being with you.
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ugh this is bad no. if she volunteers to spend more time with you, fine, but don't expect any time spent outside what you're paying for. And I *really* liked plenty of my clients but still refused to ever have dinner off the lock with them.
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I wasn't expecting it, but did offer and some have accepted. It's a really nice gift from those providers. Don't offer to those who have babysitters awaiting their return so they're not under pressure. And they seemed to enjoy my company.