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What's your gender? | (If you're not monog dating/married, imagine you are.) If you press the button, your partner happily agrees to let you have a one night stand with someone you find very attractive, once. Your partner will never get upset, and the event disrupts nothing. You:

Male || press button
55.4%
Male || don't press
32.2%
Female || press button
7%
Female || don't press
5.5%

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If the partner happily agrees, it's still monogamy.

Aella

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@VanChandler10

Wtf do you think polyamory is

8:46 AM · Jan 14, 2021

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it's where you trade the dissatisfaction of one partner for the dissatisfaction of many partners

Pirkka-Joose Sempé 28 5'3''

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Well that would make a good poll actually. Make different scenarios of various agencements and ask people how they consider it to be "it's mono/I'm male" "it's poly/I'm male" "it's mono/I'm female" "it's poly/I'm female" We see what nuances people make into mono/poly

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I think polyamory implies multiple emotional relationships simultaneously. Not sure an open relationship or having threesomes would count as polyamory.

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I get that you're anti-monogamy. That's 100% fine (and awesome). But defending that by slamming monogamy and trying to change it's definition by saying it's about being with one person forever while never even looking at or feeling desire for anyone else ever, is incorrect.

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