Monogamy-by-default sounds like college-by-default. I'm like hey, isn't it weird you enter this life plan that is meant to help but also you're now in a lot of debt... Aren't there actual serious downsides we're sort of pretending are normal? I get that college is helpful, but...
It's hard for me to believe that lasts though. I've met a lot of men who naturally loved monogamy... 30 years ago when they first got married