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    Aella‏Verified account @Aella_Girl Jan 13

    Monogamy-by-default sounds like college-by-default. I'm like hey, isn't it weird you enter this life plan that is meant to help but also you're now in a lot of debt... Aren't there actual serious downsides we're sort of pretending are normal? I get that college is helpful, but...

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      2. Aella‏Verified account @Aella_Girl Jan 13

        College has a big sting in it that ruins lives in a wide variety of ways, and we tend to brush it aside. When I say ppl aren't satisfied with sexual exclusivity in monogamy, it's like saying people are unsatisfied with college debt, even if they definitely wanted college.

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      3. Aella‏Verified account @Aella_Girl Jan 13

        Cause obviously long term monogamy isn't exactly naturally aligned with the needs of a lot of people in it. By the time men are old, 25% report actually cheating on their wives. Something in our institution of marriage is deeply broken, it's not serving a huge chunk of people.

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      2. El Fez Magnifico‏ @ElFez3 Jan 13
        Replying to @Aella_Girl

        Monogamy has more of a basis in human nature than college attendance. It’s a social institution that has, by now, proven its utility as a human practice (college too, but it’s a different kettle). Whatever downsides might exist, monogamy can certainly be said to be normal atp.

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      3. Aella‏Verified account @Aella_Girl Jan 13
        Replying to @ElFez3

        Monogamy as the norm we have it today is younger than college imo

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      2. Bella Rudd‏ @BellaRudd1 Jan 14
        Replying to @Aella_Girl

        hmm isn't life about managing & balancing one's dissatisfactions & dysfunctions? i might value sex & variety a more than most & am willing to tradeoff other stuff. i get that it's sort of perverse how monogamous couples are expected to be in denial about their own tradeoffs.

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      3. Pirkka-Joose Sempé 27 5'3''‏ @pjsempe Jan 14
        Replying to @BellaRudd1 @Aella_Girl

        Absolutely and that's a more much better basis for a discussion Imo than the op (with all due credit to Aella who's often interesting). Also it seems to me that monogamy works for most people and that's why it's the go-to situation, not the other way around.

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      1. shakoist‏ @cauchyfriend Jan 14
        Replying to @Aella_Girl

        Monogomy is more lindy than modern college-by-default.

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      2. little contessa  🐇‏ @Lola_lmao7 Jan 14
        Replying to @Aella_Girl

        I think humans, even before history, were pretty much "naughty monogamists". We pair-bond for life but then have a rendezvous every now and then. Imo, I prefer European type naughty monogamy

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      3. Steve Webster‏ @croft1a Jan 14
        Replying to @Lola_lmao7 @JadeResurrected @Aella_Girl

        Herodotus gives us a different picture. The one man family was a phenomenon seen inside the walls of civilisation, not so much outside

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      2. WhyNotNothing‏ @SlugaBeskorisni Jan 14
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        It’s the other way around, people are broken and unfit for marriage. Aren’t there more serious downsides to polygamy? Emotional welfare of kids, bigger attack surface on ones emotional welfare, harder to achieve unity with anyone, dissipated resources of all kinds.

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      3. little contessa  🐇‏ @Lola_lmao7 Jan 14
        Replying to @SlugaBeskorisni @Aella_Girl

        I do think polyamory becomes a bit challenging once you throw children into the picture. Especially for more unusual types of polyamorous arrangements. To the point that it's not sustainable

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