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Have you been in a monogamous relationship with the same person for 20+ years? || In your relationship, have you wanted to have sex with someone who isn't your current monogamous partner? (if single, pls skip this question, see comments for results screenshots)

No || No
21.1%
No || Yes
55.4%
Yes || No
6.2%
Yes || Yes
17.2%

1,793 votesFinal results

4:41 AM · Jan 14, 2021

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This question seems leading. Also I’m sure most people that follow you haven’t been in a relationship since they were 10-15years old.

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Beg your pardon! Middle aged ladies also follow Aella!

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What sort of conclusions or interpretations are you looking to draw from this? Desiring another person outside of your relationship is normal. If the mentality is having a desire and needing to act on it why should being in a poly relationship prevent wanting even more ppl?

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how do i answer if im poly

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Way too much variation in interpretation of "want."

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I'm a profoundly monogamous person. We tried an open relationship for a while and I couldn't stand it. I am occasionally attracted to other women, but I don't think I'll ever trade the safety of our realtionship for that thrill. Your take

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I was for 15 years. Wanted, yes. Acted on, no. Though it was an unhealthy relationship... I'd be curious of gender vs currently or preferring monogamous.