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@Aella_Girl
Running an Onlyfans is terrifying. If you advertise on reddit, you're at risk of being banned from all the biggest subs by the same cabal of mods. On Instagram, Tiktok, they randomly ban ppl with linktrees. Twitter, you get shadowbanned. Payment processors, banned. 1/
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@Aella_Girl
Whenever I interact with any external entity it's really stressful; I gotta be as polite/submissive as possible or risk an income cut. A few times a week we hear of another girl who got banned from somewhere - we can't do anything, we just tense up and pray it's not gonna be us.
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@Aella_Girl
And so whenever I'm in a space that's explicitly sex worker friendly, it's like a huge weight has lifted. Is this how ppl who run SFW businesses feel? In the rare occasions I get someone in power tell me yes, they like me, they're not going to hurt me, it's SO GOOD.
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@Aella_Girl
followup examples: years ago i made some youtube videos, and linked to my camgirl stuff in the description. There was zero mention in youtube rules prohibiting this, but youtube banned me with no warning, no three strikes. I emailed/appealed but heard nothing from anyone.
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