How attractive am I? this question is one of the most confusing/surreal ones, and I think this generalizes to a lot of other people. I have evidence I am attractive. I make good money off it and people tell me I'm very hot. This should be the end of it, right? No.
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So to be safe, we downgrade our own estimations - but downgrade too far and the less attractive will resent you - we all probably have known a super hot friend who commiserates with your insecurity by comparing their flaws to yours and it's annoying.
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So we've got pressure to know where we are, and also a giant social conspiracy to prevent us from knowing where we are. We end up bouncing around in a vague hot zone, where the boundaries are clear and our self esteem is left to wander according to daily whims.
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I actually disagree with that statement, I think someone that acts with confidence and doesn’t let their perceived physical beauty limit them becomes more attractive.
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The vast majority of people intuitively know their level of attractiveness, you don't need objective measure. It sticks out when people don't know it, because it is rare.
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I've had the idea for something like a dating app that crowd sources a "market appraisal" of desirability. I'm convinced that much infidelity happens because ppl want to know they still "got it" and lack frame of reference in committed LT relationship.
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I think it would potentially help preserve LT relationships if ppl could find that external validation (or invalidation, depending) w/o needing to seek it out through faithless intimacy with another partner.
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