How attractive am I? this question is one of the most confusing/surreal ones, and I think this generalizes to a lot of other people. I have evidence I am attractive. I make good money off it and people tell me I'm very hot. This should be the end of it, right? No.
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People 'knowing their place' in the attractiveness scale is important, because we collectively make fun of people who've overshot their estimation of themselves - just think of any media portrayal where an unattractive person acts like a very hot person. It's comedy!
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So to be safe, we downgrade our own estimations - but downgrade too far and the less attractive will resent you - we all probably have known a super hot friend who commiserates with your insecurity by comparing their flaws to yours and it's annoying.
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So we've got pressure to know where we are, and also a giant social conspiracy to prevent us from knowing where we are. We end up bouncing around in a vague hot zone, where the boundaries are clear and our self esteem is left to wander according to daily whims.
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It will depend on what fields you are attempting to be successful in. On OnlyFans, I would say 90% of your success is due to how you look. If you were a brain surgeon I would say 1%. This privilege concepts has gone too far - we all have strengths and weaknesses.
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In relation to referring to yourself as hot, in most areas of life it would come across as arrogant as best / stupid at worst, so just don't. In advertising porn services, however, its probably expected.
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Has anyone suggested aspects of your beauty, appeal, “hotness” are directly related to how you carry yourself? Your playful nature and the confidence and humor to your brand of sex/pornography? Symmetry and aesthetic beauty are part of it but not necessarily biggest %.
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