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The idea that a man is banging me cause he cares about proving himself as a man through me is a revolting thought. Stuff like the memes below end up really enforcing my (and I suspect other women's) sexual selectivity. I don't want my vag to feel like a hole of magical validation

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Geoff Sholly

@IronWolfV

Jan 6, 2021

Now this is 4th dimensional thinking, with big balls and lots of intestinal fortitude.

5:41 PM · Jan 6, 2021

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You’ll have to ask evolution about that

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I don’t think you have to worry about it. I’ll go way out on a limb and say that a man who bangs you does so because he REALLY wants to bang you ;-)

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If you’re banging a woman, but you’re thinking of a guy... is it still straight? 🤔

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Isn't this similar to the memes about women breaking up with their boyfriends and then banging his best friend to 'get back at him'?

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I would pay to see this movie.

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"I don't want my vag to feel like a hole of magical validation" As someone with holes of non-magical shame and regret, this sounds pretty nice really.

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Without knowing you on any personal level, it would just be ego validation and/or gratification.

Steffen Schuldenzucker

@sschuldenzucker

Jan 6, 2021

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@Aella_Girl

Isn't this a special case of objectification? Seeing you as a mere means to an end, rather than an end in itself? (Kant)

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Interesting, why don’t I (and I suspect many more guys than girls) feel this way about my penis? In fact, it’s kind of flattering/hot if a girl wants to fuck me as a status/validation thing. Even for revenge. Why the difference?

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If this is really a concern of yours, I'd step out of the crowd and say you need to pick a better class of man.