One way I think sex work has impacted me is that I've become increasingly selfish in what I want in my personal sex life. My fantasies increasingly revolve around not caring what the other person wants and being fully indulged. I don't wanna have to give one single more shit
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This will probably undo/fix itself a bit once I get a regular personal sex life, but for now I feel pretty allergic to the idea of putting in effort. I want someone with effortless compatibility, which yes I'm aware is pretty unrealistic.
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Honestly, it's pretty normal to feel that way, especially when you don't have sex regularly (or at all).
The good thing is, if you're fully open and honest, virtually all guys will try any fetish you want, even if they aren't great the first try.
You'll always get their best.
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For me it's the same. But different. Sorta. Insecurity (that i called empathy) made me get good at sex. But focusing on being good stole my joy. And made me not great. Self love and acceptance helped me open to my own pleasure. And then chase it hard.