I am genuinely curious if more women in your line of work answer in the affirmative, and I mean no disrespect there - I just fear that may be the case. :(
almost voted "yes" bc all my favorite romantic pairings were significantly older guy/younger girl, which i think a lot of people view as imbalanced but, thinking about it, they actually seem really well-balanced
I only discovered my love for domination at a later age. While sex is about power, this element arises spontaneously, in the moment, out of reprocital love for it.
Mine came from the stack of dirty magazines at my dad's work bar. Soft core 80s images; boobs, bush, and the rare lips shot. Didn't even show bumholes. But it inspired my first stiffy, and it was a taboo thrill to meet dad at the boozer and easily duck off to read the magazines.