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I'm agender, in that when I google 'agender' everything that's said about it sounds right to me. I have no sense of internal gender, womanness feels like a suit I got put into. But the concept of telling people I'm "not cis" feels so bizarre. 1/

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Apologetically Anonymous

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Dec 22, 2020

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@Aella_Girl

The whole discussion seems to be about some spiritual sense or stereotypes of what a woman/man should be. But you're objectively a woman, it's a fact. Nobody can give a coherent description of that 'internal gender', so I'd say you're a woman who feels like an individual.

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@Aella_Girl

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Sure, my stance is that gender is in the eye of the beholder, and I am beheld as female

11:33 PM · Dec 22, 2020

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Apologetically Anonymous

@Songbir95377759

Dec 22, 2020

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@Aella_Girl

Nicely put. My first part was directed more broadly to the topic. The last part was my view on your wondering 'agender'. I think it's a weird term that muddies the water because broadly everyone just feels individual. The def man/woman isn't suited for determination by feeling.

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I often hear "How awful would it feel if someone went around using opposite pronouns on you and calling you a man?" Me: "Fine? It's happened. I don't 'correct' people. People are allowed to put me into their concept of 'man.' " Before I know it "You've been blocked."