Why would I do that? People see my woman suit and know that woman suits mean something in society, and that seems... true. It also seems totally irrelevant to me if they understand I don't 'feel' like a woman. It doesn't impact anything. Why would I bother to correct them? 2/
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Like, if I used they/them pronouns that wouldn't *mean* anything. I'd still look and act like I do, and nothing else would change, and nothing about the way they viewed me would change. She/her pronouns are part of my woman suit, and like sure, whatever man. 3/
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It also seems weird cause 'cis' is often used as a weapon in the gender culture wars, and sometimes people who are angry at me describe me as cis, and I often don't correct them, because it feels weird that my agenderness should be relevant *at all* to almost *anything*
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my suspicion is that everyone feels this way. gender is a role, not an identity.
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They don’t. Plenty of people, cis and trans, have strong gender feelings. Some are more concrete than others. Mine is a fairly insistent “I am not a guy” but not much more direction beyond that, except that estrogen works way better for me, brain-wise than testosterone ever did.
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Do you feel brown haired ?
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I’m trans and I feel much the same way. I’ve never felt like a particular gender either, and transition for me was more about certain practicalities. Beyond that, it’s obvious that people will act on what *they* see of you, rather than on what *you* see of yourself.
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I don't know what gender is anymore. It used to be a euphemism for sex and at other times a way talk about things like "gender roles" and to take into account people with gender dysphoria. So when someone says they are agender or non-binary, I don't quite understand.
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Where have all the normal lesbians gone? Seriously. I know of no single lesbian younger than myself (36) that doesn’t identify as gender-queer, non-comforting, etc. and asks for new pronouns. Not one. I live in San Francisco.
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