People have way bigger variance around sexual promiscuity than you think. Some people genuinely strongly prefer trad, monog, conservative sexuality; others genuinely strongly prefer nontrad, polyamorous, publicly expressed sexuality. both of these are FINE. this isn't a war!
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Misconceptions about polyamory: *polyamory means less commitment (poly ppl's primary relationships last the same amount as monog ones do) *no men will want you if you're poly (so many married poly women out there!) *polyamory is necessarily a phase or a choice
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All this to say that I get lots of shit online for expressing difficulty finding a partner; people assume it's because I do sex work, and no man wants that. But... this feels like not the issue to me. I'm poly already, and poly men are way more likely to be fine with sex work.
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In my heavily poly circles, I've never once seen a sex worker have trouble dating. It's legitimately just a job - and maybe that's hard for you to understand, but for some people it's actually seriously not a big deal. Sex is a different type of thing for us, and we like it.
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Such an interesting thread. I am temperamentally in the monogamy/commitment to one person camp, but I believe you! We're funny monkeys.
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This is why most monogamous people are suspicious. If you're seeking other partners it means you're not that into your current one.
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