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No, we literally tell you who you’re going to marry and you’re going to do it. You come to us precisely because the norm of shopping is the problem.

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@DistractedThink

Dec 10, 2020

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Is “arranged introduction” more accurate? Arranged Introduction - for the purpose of marriage

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I misunderstood then, I'm not planning to marry with no question the person you suggest. I have finances I'm not gonna just trust with someone I haven't gotten to know.

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aella this is the kind of thing i’d expect you to hate off the bat, someone telling you what to do with your life based off personal interpretation of data it’s funny you’re considering it.

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I'm find with it if ppl can't actually control me. If it was "sign up for this service and you're contractually obliged to marry who we tell you to" I would nope tf out of that

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Aella

@Aella_Girl

I'm down to stay in once I know him long enough to trust him not to run off with my money. But it takes a lil bit of time to get to know a person. I'm not gonna marry a stranger, that's really risky, and I wouldn't want a stranger to want to marry me either.

8:48 PM · Dec 10, 2020

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suppose earlier arranged marriages relied more heavily on the institution of family to bind people contractually, and this is something you’d lack in your particular context. also broadly in our modern cultural context.

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Aella

@Aella_Girl

Dec 10, 2020

????? I'm not rejecting it. I'm down for commitment, it's just stupid to jump into commitment without having some reasonable trust in the person you're committing to first.

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