I have pretty strange and strongly wired in abnormalities in how and when I communicate with other people and I don't know how to quickly convey to them that no the reason for me behaving this way is because my brain is weird, it's not because of you at all.
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I often end up having semi awkward conversations where I have to quickly explain "no I'm just like this. No that's not an excuse to hide a more normal reason, I actually do this to everybody."
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Some things: I can't have one on one conversations unless there's an explicit goal, and no you can't just make one up. There's 50% chance I'll respond to your msg, even if it's great and I like you.
Also I need to figure out why we're talking, explicitly and out loud, right now.
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The window into humanity is super narrow and while the info has *some* value it's definitely not quantifiably worth the time.
The main benefit for most is human-connecty-feelings. Talking to most strangers usually makes me feel different though 🤷♂️
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No it’s not information - it’s connection. It’s literally a change to your perceived sense of well being.
I’m curious if not by communication, how do you connect with people ?