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I’m paraphrasing the example from an article I read recently that I can’t for the life of me remember, but the background idea is something I wrote about in this blog post a while ago. I’m reshaping because my mentions have been full of inconsistent agency applications lately.
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I kept reading and expecting to see the connection to toxic masculinity, which is what this post seems to be explaining, but it never came. Looking at trends, you wrote this about a month after toxic masculinity went mainstream with the Gillette controversy.
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Do you make the distinction between responsibility and culpability? Once we realize it exists, it's a very important distinction to make, but many people don't, and say responsibility when they really mean culpability.
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It also reminds me of this small fact in The Handmaid's Tale: since women aren't allowed to read, commanders can't play Scrabble with their wife. It's worse for women, but stupid rules suck for men too. Both can be true at the same time, there isn't one side with only victims.