i just remembered a cool lesson that a friend taught me a couple years ago
there are—she said—plenty of girls who would actually *sometimes* enjoy making out or having sex with some of their male friends, but don't, for a particular reason: /1
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with a typical guy, they can sense that the guy would afterwards take it as an invitation to ask her for more, or feel entitled to more, and get clingy, and keep bringing it up and trying to make things happen, and generally make it awkward /2
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so—my friend claimed—if you (somehow) exude a vibe signalling that a girl can make out with you & be confident that you'll take it as is and won't make it into a Thing afterwards…
there might actually be friends who will sometimes be in the mood to make out with you, or more /3
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now, this was my friend's personal perspective, and she is not the most typical girl, but she's not totally untypical either
she's more untypical in her openness and honesty than anything else
either way, something for my kings to ponder /end
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I strong agree with this. If I get any whiff from a dude that he might be clingy if I had sex once and stopped, then I don't have sex to begin with.