In my experience, the biggest unspoken and often unseen social motivator is attractiveness. Consistently, hotter people are treated better, even subtly, and consistently most people around me have either denied or ignored that they're treating/being treated differently.
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I've also seen really attractive friends get treated well; people smile at them more, pay them more attention in conversations, ask them more questions, are kinder, get more favors, and those attractive friends never once acknowledge that being hot is why they're so confident.
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I'm not sayin all this is bad, that we should treat ppl equally, but I would like a greater acknowledgement and visibility. I'm not usually into 'privilege' conversations but this seems like the biggest unspoken privilege of our time, significantly greater than racial disparity
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To be precise, they were blinded by their mind. It was their internal reaction after looking at the face that blinded them.
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Who is more privileged than an attractive women in her early to mid-twenties? Men of all ages will fall over themselves for her attention.
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Damn you Twitter, for not having an edit button for the errors I see the second after I hit reply.
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This all sounds believable…until you get to the part about your male friends looking at her face. :-)
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