there's a lot of 'reasons' that feel persuasive for me; I'm careful about makeup and lighting irl, and also I've run into an unfortunate series of men I dated who weren't sexually attracted to me
I’ve been on the other side of that dating situation and have since realized what a shitty thing it is to do to a woman. I’m curious if that’s a widespread thing and what the psychological causes might be. Loneliness seems a likely candidate