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Do you BOTH *have one or more kids *are married or in a serious relationship *and have been in that relationship for 8 or more years If so: How's your sex life?

N/A, results
66.1%
Bad/rare/nonexistent
9.2%
Okay/occasional/fine
11.7%
Great/frequent/awesome
13%

3,216 votesFinal results

3:22 AM · Nov 11, 2020

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Amazing / no frequency will ever be enough

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SCENARIO: You’ve been happily married for many years, when your sex drive nearly or completely vanishes. Your spouse still desires you sexually. Do you continue to have sex (of some kind) with them although you will not enjoy it?

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Surprising results 👀

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Need another part, "and is that ok with you."

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1) this probably skews towards younger people, who have young kids which means no sleep, which means negative effects on intimacy. (I.e. skewing towards very young people in 20’s to early 30’s) 2) do a poll for single people :)

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Gotta improve your categories - too chunky. Love what you're trying to figure out, bit in on the sides of the marriedwkidses

@tulkoju

Nov 11, 2020

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@Aella_Girl

Only 6.5 years in but mostly great (occasionally just ok), quite frequent, so pretty awesome. Also, we're polyamorous, so we date others but my above answer only refers to my sex life with my wife.

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I have been married 10+ years and have 2 kids. I work away, but when I'm home sex is often and awesome.

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Married 10 years, 6 and 2 year old, sex 4-7 times a week depending on moods. My wife listened to One Extraordinary Marriage. Their principal: You are responsible for initiating sex at least twice within your 3 days of the week. Her days are mon-wed, mine are fri-sun.