In a default polyamory world with stigma against monogamy, imagine a monogamous person expressing any difficulty. "My partner cheated on me" or "Im into this other person but can't act on it" The world would use these normal flaws to mock and degrade monog people. 1/
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So one issue here is I also think a lot of people take "That all seems weird to me," with a subtext of "but you do you I don't really care," and instead of hearing "It's not for me," hear "You're a freak and I'm judging you." Like I don't care that people are into DDLG stuff tho
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a lot of the stories I hear it seems like a kind of extreme attachment that I don't really think is healthy or beneficial and the people into it could probably suffer an examination of their desires and attachments. But I also don't really care?
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If flaws shouldn’t be used to debate the healthiness of a lifestyle, what would you say is the alternative?
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Stop debating the "healthiness" of lifestyles you aren't actively a part of and interested in helping rather than discrediting.
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Hey, thanks for sharing this thread from
@Aella_Girl. Read the whole version here:https://threader.app/thread/1325490171140169728 …
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"just stop using flaws as evidence of failure or an excuse to judge" doesn't help you if nobody else does that, or more importantly the people who would use weakmen as an excuse to fuck you over. Weakmen are super weapons regardless of whether you want them to be.
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Just read " how to not give a fuck" and it speaks volumes about being blind to self identifying issues.
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Identity politics is a hell of a drug...any alternative, any fly in the ointment of groupthink/the Overton Window and you’re ousted...it’s a diff form of fascism...the shutting down of anything threatening or not pleasing to the narrative
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Race and politics l would say.
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