why is casual sex bad so often
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i have an irrational anger at men right now for my lack of enjoyment having casual sex with them
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Is the casual bit always bad for you it is it:
Worse now that you are back on your performative A-game, and expect them to be closer to such a high bar?
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Are they overthinking it/ underperforming more than before?
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I'm really kinky and most ppl I end up fucking for fun, aren't
Tho tbf I havent had casual sex with a new person in years
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This is an astounding lack of self awareness, or humility. It's very likely to be not the man's fault at all. Could be just a simple lack of chemistry. Or, god forbid, you.
Interesting how we always put the onus of enjoyment on the man's performance.
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Depends on casual I suppose. New partners all the time, or ongoing FWB situation that’s at least taken time to learn your wants/needs. I think ladder generally has much better results and can still avoid the commitments/relationship engagements you don’t seek.
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Cause you're not supposed to do it. It's something men enjoy much more than women.
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