why is casual sex bad so often
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My feeling is that as we mature we integrate our mind, heart, sacral, and sexual centres, and sex that doesn’t involve opening up that whole central channel with our lover starts to feel unsatisfactory.
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This can happen with one-off encounters, but needs both people to be open, and it’s not “casual”. It can be very deep, even with a stranger. Transpersonal sexuality.
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Well for one, women are probably innately less likely to enjoy it b.c it's costly. But generally, while sex is inherently intimate, it doesn't go the full distance on its own (nobody confuses masturbation w. sex). When you're in love with the person, there's a passion component.
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One consideration to juxtapose with this idea is that women don't have a distinct period of receptivity/proceptivity, whereas in many primates estrus is just a few hours out of several weeks. Some primates are more like us, some less; but we are relatively extreme in this regard.
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Depends on casual I suppose. New partners all the time, or ongoing FWB situation that’s at least taken time to learn your wants/needs. I think ladder generally has much better results and can still avoid the commitments/relationship engagements you don’t seek.
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This is an astounding lack of self awareness, or humility. It's very likely to be not the man's fault at all. Could be just a simple lack of chemistry. Or, god forbid, you. Interesting how we always put the onus of enjoyment on the man's performance.
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I didn't say the anger was rational u dingus
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Unfortunately if they’re not too familiar with you beforehand, there’s no history to know of the person you’re with. It’s like learning a new “instrument” each time. It’s not efficient unless you both talk about sex openly and honestly beforehand (about tastes, fetishes, etc).
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