why is casual sex bad so often
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i have an irrational anger at men right now for my lack of enjoyment having casual sex with them
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🤷♀️sex is super-good (vs “not bad” or “pleasurable”) in proportion to a combination of 1) wanting to have someone’s babies (& everything that entails), and 2) wanting to communicate profoundly. Probably not high on either dimension if casual?
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maybe so? I don't think this resonates with me personally. I've had really good sex with ppl I wasn't profoundly communicating with or want to have babies with. i think im just obligate kinky
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because you don't tell them how bad you want them to eat you out because you want them to *want* to eat you out
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Because men are rarely considerate & are often emotionally negligent, even if we lower the bar of expectations to “helps me orgasm & responds to texts.”
😏 It requires a huge investment of emotional labor to get a man to treat us with dignity. 🤷🏻♀️🙃
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I don't think i actually agree with this very much but I emotionally am down to perform a men are trash ritual with other women
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