To all the modern secular ppl I see fetishizing tradition: As someone who came from an extremely traditional 1950s-style family, you think you want this but you probably don't actually
Both fetishizing and rejecting tradition are weird extremes. Tradition is there to study and reflect on, maybe amend some new things that aren't working out that well. Family models have definitely improved. Urbanism was kinda wrecked in 1970's.
Can't enter the same river twice.