I think it depends what you mean by “marriage” if the restriction of the other person’s sexuality is not part of the package. Marriage is an institution that is in part there for society, for children, it’s not just a contract between two individuals.https://twitter.com/Aella_Girl/status/1320070543375167489 …
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Replying to @kaschuta
you know poly people have long-term successful marriages with kids, right? Restricting sexuality came out of the issues of pregnancy, which would def hurt preexisting kids, but today this is no longer an issue, and you can both commit to kids and express yourself sexually.
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I’m sure there are many such cases. But the issue remains that the goals of poly as poly are related to individual self-actualization, and the goals of traditional marriage are collective. A two parent home is still the best thing we have for the next generation.
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Replying to @kaschuta @Aella_Girl
I think grandma is a bit different to a polycule both in genetic investment and commitment.
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Replying to @kaschuta @Aella_Girl
I don’t think it’s nitpicky, genetic investment matters. Correlates both with good outcomes and, unfortunately, child abuse on the other end of the spectrum.
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Replying to @Aella_Girl
I think in adoption you kind of forfeit the ‘raised by kin’ case. Isn’t that kind of the point?
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Replying to @kaschuta
i... don't know? My point is generally, kids need a dedicated adult/group of adults who they can rely on to take care of them/be kind/supportive/etc. As long as that happens I think the kid will probably turn out fine?
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and it doesnt matter if it's a multigenerational household, or 2 well equipped mother-father, or gay parents, or a polycule, or adopted parents, or grandparents, as long as the adults are present and caring for the child
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