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Deleting onlyfans isn't too tall an order, in the same way "i'm uncomfortable with you hanging out alone with your friends" isn't too tall an order. The point isn't how difficult it is to follow, it's that the order indicates something more deeply misaligned. twitter.com/kaschuta/statu

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Aella

@Aella_Girl

Oct 24, 2020

There's lots of ways partners attempt to restrict each other's behavior that's *not* condoned by society, and it feels sort of weird to me that in a post-birth-control era, we're okay with partners controlling each other's sexuality.

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Well to be fair we're not in a post STD era

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true, but poly people have a really good handle on this - it's very common to find fluid bonding agreements in poly relationships, very similar to pandemic quarantine bubble arrangements!

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lots of poly people are in polycules, e.g., groups of 3-4 who have sex with only each other, and if someone has sex with a new person they have to check out the risk status of that person, or have ppl get STD tests before resuming unprotected sex.

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Facts. Let's just stop calling it fluid bonding 🤢