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There are other health issues beyond birth control, like STDs, that can arise with having multiple sex partners while in a relationship. Beyond that, trying to remove emotion from sex is a very tall order for the masses, especially with the hormones released while doing it.
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Sure, I agree, culturally we're conditioned around having jealousy and there's almost no messaging around how to handle sexual insecurity. Poly relationships handle STDs pretty well, there's lots of methods ppl use and guidelines around fluid bonding!
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true, but poly people have a really good handle on this - it's very common to find fluid bonding agreements in poly relationships, very similar to pandemic quarantine bubble arrangements!
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by the way you call it "controlling" and suggest it shouldn't be seen as ok, seems like you just don't get what it is too make sacrifices for the preferences of the partner
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I think it's voluntary in relationships where it works well. That is, people want to restrict their own sexuality in the ways that they restrict it for their partner. That's the kind of relationship they value. There are certainly relationships where it's coerced too though.
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