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The Masses Of Twitter do this thing where literally anything you do or say will be interpreted in the most unflattering light possible. I keep thinking "Oh if I just give more information people will understand", but this isn't true - people have already made up their minds.

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Mason Rudolph’s Helmet

@NuttingsWallet2

Oct 17, 2020

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@Aella_Girl

Asks twitter for advice (it was at this point she knew she fucked up). Gets advice she doesn’t like. Rails on about how the advice was terrible. Maybe don’t ask a bunch of random people for advice. Also maybe, be mature enough to make your own decisions.

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I asked for advice on where to meet people, I didn't ask for advice on how to be more marriageable.

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I agree most men wouldn't, but I'm already polyamorous, and a small minority of men are also poly. My selection field is already very small; among men who are poly, a very high percentage of those are willing to marry a sex worker.

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So you recognize that you have very restricting demands. Isn't it then reasonable for people to believe that the question 'where to find a husband' might be more about you changing? Perhaps your original question can't even be answered as you'd like it to.

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Of course I have very restrictive demands. And no, it isn't reasonable - I wanna know where people met their partners. Poly people exist in normal society too. Gay people make up a small % but they can still ask straight people where they met their partners.

9:54 PM · Oct 18, 2020

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Did those people meet their partners by filtering people with your list of restrictive demands? A lot of people seem to adapt to their partner, so even if they did end up at the place that you now like to end up, they might never have gotten there through your process.