classic filtering problem
you have a massive audience and i'm sure too many possible suitors to sift through
so, how would you want a potential partner to stand out from the crowd?
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I ran a survey with scored questions to find someone to date. There was one strong outlier of a positive score... My ex. The next highest scores were people I knew and liked but didn't want to date (age gaps, they already involved in a family, etc.)
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I'm impressed that you made a survey with such solid validity.
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wonder if good contenders would be feel weirdly unqualified to fill out the survey in the first place
maybe some way to distribute your survey without having your name on it?
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why would that be?
I would imagine that the selection pressure against filling it out would push in the right direction...
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filters out guys who think it's weird to fill out surveys for dating: good
filters out guys who would feel presumptuous filling it out: maybe bad
idk, depends on what she's looking for
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Presumptuous?
Because it even filling out the survey suggest that you think there is even a possibility that you might be a match?
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yeah, i'm just trying to imagine my guy friends filling out the survey and it's not computing 🤷🏻
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so I filled out the survey
It's IMO well-designed and I think the questions themselves would be excellent for filtering, but I do think it'll be hard to get many people to fill it out. The equivalent time/effort spent on OKC or IRL dating is probably higher return for most men
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I think i had around 900 responses?
hm would it be helpful for people to suggest their male friends fill it out?
Out of how many "impressions"?
Also, if there was a link somewhere, I would fill it out.
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I meant "many people (that you would want to date)".
From this comment, I assumed that you didn't find anyone you wanted to date from the survey.
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I ran a survey with scored questions to find someone to date. There was one strong outlier of a positive score... My ex. The next highest scores were people I knew and liked but didn't want to date (age gaps, they already involved in a family, etc.)
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