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    1. Aella‏Verified account @Aella_Girl 16 Oct 2020

      Not that many years ago, I was attracted to "masculine" men. Long hair was gross; if a dude wore a skirt this made my vagina shrivel into sand. Then I joined a culture where masculine signalling was done differently - skirt wearing and long hair were *countersignalling* - 1/

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    2. Aella‏Verified account @Aella_Girl 16 Oct 2020

      done as subtle social evidence that these men were so confident in their power that they could wear a skirt and still be high social status and attractive - similar in theory to how rich people sometimes wear very distressed/ill fitting clothing. After this, my experience of 2/

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    3. Aella‏Verified account @Aella_Girl 16 Oct 2020

      masculinity changed in a way I didn't know it could. Now I'm basically *only* attracted to men who feel comfortable presenting feminine - this indicates that they're stronger and more powerful than the men who would would lose status by presenting feminine, and strength is manly.

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    4. Aella‏Verified account @Aella_Girl 16 Oct 2020

      But my point here is something else - I'm recounting an experience of sexuality, of culture, attraction, gender, and presentation going through a deep shift for me after I found different cultural norms. It turns out very old and ancient sexual patterns can take a myriad of 4/

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    5. Aella‏Verified account @Aella_Girl 16 Oct 2020

      unusual new forms; there's lots of different ways to represent strength/submission/loyalty/power. I think the people who are absolutely convinced that no good man would ever marry a "whore" are failing to understand the variety of ways culture can treat the same principles. 5/

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    6. Aella‏Verified account @Aella_Girl 16 Oct 2020

      Monogamy/trad stuff is a 'stable setup' - there's a set of norms and expectations that makes things predictable and workable. But there's lots of other 'stable setups' - and it can be really hard to understand how it works if you haven't seen it up close, just like how I didn't 6

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      Aella‏Verified account @Aella_Girl 16 Oct 2020

      get how some of my female friends could possibly stand their partners sometimes wearing makeup, before I entered that culture and realized the signals actually meant quite different things than I thought. Promiscuity culture can be extremely stable, and there's norms inside it.7/

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        2. Aella‏Verified account @Aella_Girl 16 Oct 2020

          The trad perspective of promiscuity culture is absolutely *not* how promiscuity culture actually works. Promiscuity culture signals mean very different things than they mean in traditional communities, but trad people see those signals, misinterpret, and get horrified. 8/

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        3. Aella‏Verified account @Aella_Girl 16 Oct 2020

          For me, a man in a skirt meant weakness, but when it started meaning strength, I was attracted. The signals change, but the values underneath remain stable. The values underneath promiscuity culture are surprisingly similar to the values underneath trad culture, imo.

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        1. ➐‏ @yojimbooo 16 Oct 2020
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          What are some of the norms?

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