The idea that sex workers can't find husbands is so weird to me... I've run deep in sex worker circles for coming up on a decade and it's never been an issue. Most of the girls in the chats have long term boyfriends, a big chunk of them are married. 1/
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I personally have never ever had an issue where sex work got in the way - my partners have supported (or participated with!) me entirely. The idea that they're hiding discomfort with sex work is *absurd*, given how many more touchy, difficult things they're honest with me about.
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That's the fucking difference, lol. That is THE difference. And it has nothing to do with being the "breadwinner" but being the dominant one. AKA, simp husbands.
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This is the difference. High earners have little incentive to marry a sex worker, their earnings win them opportunities with people more committed to them. Doesn't mean the only acceptable gender dynamic is male breadwinner + female housewife though.
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"more committed to them" - the idea that sex workers are less committed to their partners is quite incorrect; you're interpreting sex work as a sign of lack of commitment, but in pro-sex-work fields this is compartmentalized and isn't an indication of less commitment.
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Would you personally ever have a house husband
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So her direct experience of many sex workers is a fantasy? Tell me, how many sex workers do you know in a personal capacity that makes your opinion more valid?
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It may depend on the kind of man you want to marry. As a sex worker you’ll likely marry a man who is a little less dominant. If that’s ok with you then that’s ok with you and best of luck.
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