Conversation

Itt: everyone getting excited to talk about their opinions on partner choosing and how to make marriages work and everything except answering my actual question

Quote Tweet

Aella

@Aella_Girl

Oct 15, 2020

Happily married people: what's your best advice for meeting someone to get happily married to? I need help

8:37 PM · Oct 15, 2020

Quote Tweet

Likes

Justin Martin

@supertrucker

Oct 15, 2020

Replying to

@Aella_Girl

Gotta get out of the house.

Replying to

It's a thankless question to answer!

Replying to

Tbh... I’d say you just meet them. It happens, and it clicks. You rarely ever have any control on how you feel about a person. It just feels right

Replying to

i think you’d be better off seeking out married people directly

are i think the only people i know on twitter who are married? (plz untag people if you reply to this tweet)

Replying to

Ouch

Replying to

You can't know a person is the sort you'd want to marry until you meet them and spend the time needed to get to know them. However the chances increase if you look for someone who shares some kind of hobby or interest with you.

Misha Gurevich, Photographer, VC, Wives 0/1

@drethelin

Oct 15, 2020

Replying to

@Aella_Girl

Because there is no good answer.

Replying to

Social group of personal interest: Mensa worked for oneself; Both wives, all mistresses, and most girl friends been Mensa.

1RAOKADAY

@1RAOKADAY

Oct 15, 2020

Replying to

@Aella_Girl

The person you marry should be: Open to the life goals and plans you have. Interested in quality conflict resolution which includes explicit admissions of fault when appropriate. And have a life outside of the marriage that they want to talk to you about.

Replying to

Met mine at a music festival buying acid for the first time off her friend, she said don't do it alone. The thing people are saying about being happy on your own though. They have to be better than your already great life. The where is random obviously?