Happily married people: what's your best advice for meeting someone to get happily married to? I need help
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Go to Effective Altruism or Rationalist meetup groups, ask them 'who here has been to Burning Man?', and ask those people who they know who's awesome and looking for a serious life partner.
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This has resulted in pretty good friendships and I think if the total number of these people were higher I might have some luck
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Check up front what they're up for, that way you don't go too far down the road before you realise something isn't right. Easier said than done.
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I know how to avoid people the question here is how to meet people I don't want to avoid
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Your interactions with them (and them with you) should just flow naturally. Nothing should feel forced or coerced. Definitely spend time to learn about them in every conceivable way before you get married. That way there aren't any surprises and you know exactly who they are.
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Right I am confident in my ability to detect who is good for me however I need to find them first
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Find someone who is happy/secure with how they are + happy/secure with how you are; And then don't be afraid to work at it.
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