Marriage is sometimes awful! I sometimes think people who are elevating marriage have never known a really terrible person who used "marriage is good, divorce bad" cultural messaging to trap someone into a hellscape of a marriage. Marriage is not sacred! If it's bad, leave!!
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Replying to @Aella_Girl
This is a very juvenile take. Marriage can be difficult and it is also very difficult to part the ties with family, friends, and perhaps kids. There is also a lot to be learned by sticking through the worst of it
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Replying to @MagicMiketantra
I'm speaking from the experience of watching my mother return to her abusive husband because a pastor talked about the sanctity of marriage. If marriage keeps you trapped then absolutely fuck it. I'm sure it works out for a lot of people but absolutist messaging is dangerous.
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I mean sure, but on my feed I'm seeing people say "don't get divorced" and I'm saying people who see that and believe it can end up super hurt. My mom should have divorced, *counter* to what people are claiming she should have done. Those people are absolutely wrong.
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