My brain's behavior around attraction and mate selection is very confusing to me, probably intentionally so I can't figure it out and then hack it into letting me have more sex. But basically, 'confidence' is a huge one, along with lots of special accidental shit-tests to see 1/
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Doesn’t sound particularly casual when all the provisos are required.
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So, suppose you have casual sex with a guy, and he then goes around shouting WOO YEAH I FUCKED AELLA to everyone who'll listen. How much would that negatively affect your life? (genuine question)
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You probably need to mingle with more famous men. Is there some kind of elite dating app? Famous people date other famous people partly because it resolves many of these questions you have.
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This doesn't exclude meeting random joes of course but it makes that selection more natural. Whens its obvious you have a connection with some regular hot guy you just ditch the rich app and go for it.
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You already know what you need to have sex with a man (this thread), you also know your hard limits. There's also grey area between those two. I suggest you start adding some of that to the Yes conditions. Make the process rational since feelings never are. 1/2
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But, more importantly, figure out why would you want more casual sex since you clearly don't want it for the real reasons (otherwise it would come naturally), you are stuck thinking you're A) missing out on something or B) you're a casual sex personality who's underachieving.
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Consider talking to Celeste from http://CelesteandDanielle.com . Celeste had her act together and had been doing sex and relationship coaching for several years. She's really good.
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