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How the hell does name popularity work? I hear people say "When I picked that name it wasn't popular, but suddenly everybody started naming their kid that" all the time. I myself have picked at least 3 names for things I thought weren't popular, only to soon realize they were.
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People are a substrate for memes. We've only barely scratched the surface of how they work and only really get to see the super visible ones. Once you see the world this way, stuff makes more sense, but so much of it is still inscrutable to scientific inquiry.
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One thing about girl names is that they tend to be cyclical and those all fit with that. They’re names that jive with historical fiction you (and your peers) probably read as a little girl, or dead relatives that y’all’s parents/other adults describe with hazy fondness.