Polyamory is a choice for some people, but not all. I remember trying to feel bothered when I caught my first (monog) bf sexting someone else because i thought i was supposed to.. When I learned that polyamory was a thing I was like 'oh, that is obviously exactly what i am'. 1/
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I've known I was poly for nearly a decade, and the entire time it's been 100%, no question, no doubt, not once. I'm not attracted to monogamous people. I can't imagine existing in a monogamous agreement. Polyamory feels like a deep and unchangeable part of me.
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Replying to @Aella_Girl
Huh. For my (outside observer's) perspective, there seem to be several things that go under the name of "polyamory". Do you ever find that other poly people are not doing the thing you mean in this thread?
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Replying to @WomanCorn @Aella_Girl
When the only definition is that it's not monogamy, it leaves a lot of room for creativity. Polyamory is potentially as varied as the number of practitioners.
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Replying to @Remindme2forget @Aella_Girl
There's enough variation that I expect large swaths of polyamory to fall into the same automatic rejection that monogamy does for Aella.
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Yes; I see it sort of analagous to gayness, like I would be 100% "lesbian" - there's lots of other queer people who are mostly lesbian, or some who are bi, but I could not do that; even the faintest whiff of men are gross, but all the other ppl are still 'not straight'
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