I'm tryin to figure something out so here's a bunch of words as I try to work through it: Sometimes, people talk in a group as though they are speaking a podcast at you; I call it 'podiuming'; they have interactions with you not to have a discourse, but rather as a bouncing-
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they were both doing the same type of role (e.g., parent), but with extremely different directions (e.g., father/mother). Maybe it's just more infrequent for women to podium? Maybe my sample size is just really low so I'm tryin to spin patterns out of not enough data? -
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Regardless, I've definitely started noticing more gender differences in conversational behavior lately. Men tend to be more aggressive/space taking, and women tend to... i'm having a lot of 'i don't like women's tendencies' feelings when writing this tweet rn. -
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I think I feel much less safe around women. I think I anticipate they're more likely to kick me out of groups or not listen to what I say or make decisions based on interpersonal tides rather than something consistent. I wonder if this is true or just my own biases?
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And I'm not just asking that question - I am legitimately open to this being my own biases. If you think it's actually true and not a bias thing I'd like to hear how you also seriously evaluated it being a bias yet came to the opposite conclusion.
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You see many men podiuming -> you label podiuming as masculine You think of podiuming as masculine ->When you see a woman do it, you don’t label it as podiuming because that is something that ‘men do’ (The simplest explanation is usually the right one.)
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Also, the different things she did while podiuming are typically considered feminine (like referencing emotions) so it further weakens your association with what she is doing and podiuming (which you have already identified as masculine).
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