I like the second part (tho easier said than done depending on what you have to forgive); the first part seems a little extreme in most since everyone is "bad" sometimes, and oft thinks they are doing good when they're bad.
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"When you surround an army, leave an outlet free. Do not press a desperate foe too hard."-- Sun Tzu.
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No. Cancel everything
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co-signed. so many people are needlessly cruel, often because it's all they know, or they feel compelled to pay it forward, and it perpetuates the cycle. if praise seems a bridge too far, even "don't punish people for doing what you want them to do" makes a difference
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when this is properly confronted, some subset of people will have to admit they don't actually want others to get better or do better, they just want to practice cruelty, and to do that you need acceptable/justified targets to be cruel to but IME most ppl don't think about this
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Funny, I was thinking earlier today that if you make it too easy to not change, they probably won't. Also true.
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This feels like don't take abused temporal power away from habitually antisocial sociopaths. We can do things you mention minus praise; it's a very different beast and even more of a beast when one moves through life realizing they won't lose anything if they pretend-good enough.
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If someone is pretending good enough to fool people, how if that different from actually behaving in the correct manner?
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