I've been having strong "I want someone to take care of me" feelings lately, which is pretty unusual for me. I've found myself fantasizing more about just being able to chill out and have someone house and feed me, with some level of entitlement/anger around not having it.
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In general, this is almost *never* something I've had - I usually have erred very far on "I'm alone, gotta pull myself up by my bootstraps, do whatever it takes, nobody will help you." This "where is the someone to care for me" is really new and I'm not sure where it's comin from
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you aren’t alone, this pattern is normal, time/biology/culture conspire to generate those feelings
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It may seem fleetingly attractive right now- esp. w no roomies. It makes me wonder about short term arrangements for something like this. Allow an enthusiastically willing person to take care of you for six weeks or so? But also release before you resent it? Intriguing
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I’ve definitely had this in certain phases! I even used to reason with myself—if so many families across the US can just adopt and raise puppies and other pets, house them, feed them, take care of them and love on them, why can’t I have this same treatment as a human?? 🐶
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I would volunteer in a heartbeat....if I weren't battling to house and feed myself.
But if you want to move into my unnecessarily big-ass house and help me pay the bills...lol Let me know.
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if only there was a system where women were taken care of by providers and also had children with them
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Same and I'm young af
I guess for me it's that the daddy behind it all, the states and geopolitical balance has left us (more??)
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