i feel like this is important to clarify for the people thinking im a racist for saying black men catcall. My day is disproportionately brightened by black men in this regard.
You live in an place where black people are incredibly segregated both socially and economically. I think that might be the problem with your viewpoint and statements. PoC in my neighborhood water their suburban lawns and work 9-5. Cat-calling is not a "black culture thing".
I've lived in 6 different cities in the US. I mostly only get catcalled in SF and NYC. I mean, maybe I do get catcalled by black people when I'm in predominantly black neighborhoods? But I don't get catcalled by white people when I'm in predominantly white neighborhoods.
I really don’t understand why this has been questioned. Willful ignorance? Willful misinterpretation by a group of virtue signaling paper tigers? Who knows. Who cares.
From my perspective, your intent was perfectly clear from the beginning.
It's non-sense. It's their own underdeveloped critical thinking - they're generalizing, afraid and interpreting it, equating it to mean that "all black men" catcall. They also fail to grasp - probably because it's contra-narrative - this behaviour was portrayed as positive.
You being into nerdy, somewhat awkward guys (sorry if that’s an oversimplification of how you described that attraction would not make saying something like “Asian guys are nerdy and awkward” not-problematic
Thus is the funniest thing I’ve stumbled across on this hellsite in quite some time. Every time l think about giving it up, some shit like this bubbles up and I’m like, “damn, I’m gonna hang around a bit longer.”