All the telegram groups I was in got mad at me cause they interpreted my earlier tweet as though I was gonna be writing about their personal information soon and destroy everything. Idk what the lesson is from this except maybe don't expect people to model you well?
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Sometimes out of fear or caution people lose reasoning and just assume things about people or a situation
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I frequently find other people alien in various ways and visa versa, which a couple of occasions led to misunderstandings like that. Mega sympathy. *Most* instances it's probably fixable with enough patience and time. Tho I don't know these people at all so who knows.
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Is your participation in these groups mandatory? Why do you need to 'fix' it? Not to get all gender normative but it seems like you've gotten yourself into a situation that literally every man has gotten into. You've inadvertently signaled something unwanted to a group and you1/2
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made them feel uncomfortable. At that point your intentions (which you may not understand as well as you assume in your priors) don't necessarily matter. How things look to you doesn't have any bearing on how those women see you, or the value that they perceive vs risk. 2/2
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I deal with a version of this from time to time. It's rational for them to assume the worst. They aren't optimizing to figure out the truth of your utterances, they're optimizing for their own safety. They will be happy to be rid of you with the thought "possible threat averted"
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This is how they operate. Trying to apply logic to an illogical system will only end in a ball of stress.
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