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It's quarantine. I'm an introvert. I also want to find a future husband somehow. It seems obvious to me that I should do sorting mechanisms for my twitter followers, or offer a bounty or a quiz, but I just know it'd make me the ass end of a meme so fast.

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I know a woman who met her husband and is still happily married because she offering $600 to anyone who introduced her to someone she dated for 6 months or more. It's worth doing and you can just tell the group whose judgement you respect the most. Why do you want to get married?

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I don't need to get 'married', I'm mostly using the word for a partner that does practical family things. I'd like to be in a position to have a kid if I decide I want to, also.

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Do you think your work increases or decreases the possibilities of finding one?

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I don't think it really affects it meaningfully. As in; if I removed the "must be ok with my work", I think the pool of men I'd be interested wouldn't shrink at all, because they'd already be filtered for things that correlate strongly with being ok with dating a porn actress.

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Yup. I'm poly and mostly vegan. A few men have wanted to marry me but maybe not as many as a monogamous meat eater. That's fine because I wouldn't want to marry anyone who wasn't interested in dating a poly vegan. But not shrinking my pool is one reason I never got tattooed.