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It's quarantine. I'm an introvert. I also want to find a future husband somehow. It seems obvious to me that I should do sorting mechanisms for my twitter followers, or offer a bounty or a quiz, but I just know it'd make me the ass end of a meme so fast.

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Didn't you make a survey for your followers, to see if you'd be interested in anyone who filled it out? What ever became of that?

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It was scored, yeah. My ex took it (who's a good example of someone who would score in the range I was looking for) and he was by far the highest score. After that big gap there were a few people I knew already and knew I didn't want to date.

8:12 PM · Jul 6, 2020

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That's surprising: seems to imply you've been much better at screening partners for your explicit preferences than most. Or were your preferences shaped by your ex?

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I do think I'm better than most at screening for explicit preferences. But also my ex and I dated for long enough that we molded each other a bit; it's possible he scored a bit higher due to the relationship. I don't think it explains the full gap though.